Be the wave that you are..!!

All of us are told to grow up..!

Have you ever asked yourself ...

What exactly this growing up stuff means..?

Have you?

Probably not !

Because our society encourages us to believe that growing up means giving, taking responsibilities & alot more...

& That makes us to neglect ourselves...our happiness..!! When we start growing up we start thinking about others...

The most importantly that " log kya kahenge wala kida " grows in us...

& Because of that we forget to love ourselves ... pamper ourselves & to take care of ourselves and then we think about someone to be there for us to love , to care..!!

Right ? Have you ever wished to be a kid again?

Do you want to be a child again..?

To dress up, to play, to do whatever you want to do & most importantly to get loved, pampered..??

You know what we also get by being a kid again...

We'll get ourselves back..!! Have you seen babies..?

They always enjoy their own company...

They live at their fullest...

They only think about their present...

They don't worry about others...

The only thing they know is themselves..!!

They smile & make others smile..!!

However they are...

Even if they are roaming around without clothes or even if they are not properly dressed or they are not looking good...

Whatever...they don't care..!!

They smile & all this behaviour, nature of them make people fall in love for them..!

" Everyone has the best smile..!! "

Our beauty is in our smile... Our smile attracts people...

It can make people fall in love for us...

&

Between all this growing up stuff...

We loose our smile, our own happiness..!! You know what...

It starts within...

It starts inside you...

It starts from you & ends on you..!!

We know that we can't go back...

We can't get back our childhood..!

But you know what...

We can be a kid again..!!

Yes it's possible...

&

How...

By bringing our smile back...

By not worrying much about how people think about you & whether anyone like you or not...

It's up-to you...

To live life as you want to live...to enjoy it..!!

I know responsibilities are there... work load is there...

People are there but it doesn't mean behind all this you'll loose yourself..!!

" Kuchh to log kahenge,

logon ka kaam hai kehnaa...

Chhodo bekaar ki baaton mein,

kaheen beet na jaaye rainaa... "

You are living life...

But live it in that way where you'll never regret about it...

Live life in such a way that when you'll look back you'll have an sense of satisfaction..!! People grow and people change...

It’s a natural part of life. 

Someone who was once such a necessary and vital piece of your life, may no longer fit into the puzzle at another point in time.

It doesn't mean that we don’t want them around anymore or don’t need them, but sometimes sh*t just happens..!! It sucks, but sometimes it's unavoidable. Have you ever bought a chair?

So when you entered the shop to buy it... Did you bought the first one which you saw..?

No...

Absolutely not...

Some chairs are comfortable but not good...

Some are good but not comfortable...

So we go on checking chairs one after another...

Many chairs we go on checking before choosing that one chair which is the perfect one for us..!!

So if while buying a single chair we search & reject so many chairs then imagine while choosing the best one for you how many options you should look for..?!!

You have all the rights to see many options...

There is nothing wrong in that...

Always give importance to yourself...

Your first priority should always be you..!!

No matter people will judge you or whatever they'll think about you..!!

But ...

You should never be harsh on yourself..

Think about your own happiness first..!!

Trust me...

We've all been there...

I have been there..!! No one goes through life without making a few ex-people who've been very close to them.

But don't sweat it..!!

Always remember...

" When one person walks out of your life... another walks in..!! "

Time filters out everything even people..!!

After all everything happens for a reason !

Some end on good notes, with a heartfelt goodbye. Others are there one day and gone the next with no goodbyes at all...

So no matter how you lost anyone..!!

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