What’s your status ??
- Vaishnavi Palekar
- Feb 11, 2021
- 3 min read
So..
Let's start…
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Ballu was an innocent boy..
And was very upset by his life..
His life was so unfair to him..
Like..
His friends used to pick mangoes from the garden.. But he would get caught..
His sister used to eat ice cream from the fridge and he used to get beaten up..
He was tired of such life..
And all of these things he was telling to his friend Ronny seating in the college canteen..
Then suddenly he saw a girl..
Got paused ..
He felt like his life had stopped and everything around was alright..
He loved this feeling .. but by the time he told Ronny that girl was not there..
He felt like a loser again.. but he was not that surprised by this incidence because he was familiar with such things throughout his life..!!
So ..
He chose to let his life decide the further things..
And going on with the flow of life..
Then..
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After a month he saw that girl again in the freshers party of his college ..
He felt the same again.. Loved the feeling and told Ronny about all this..
As of every best friend, Ronny came up gathering all the information about the girl - Nisha..!!
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Ballu and Nisha got connected via social media ..
Got introduced to each other.. and they started talking .. sharing things .. became close to each other ..
And then the time came.
Finally they decided to meet..
And ballu shared everything whatever he felt to nisha ..
And finally felt like something good has happened in his life..
He was enjoying that magical feeling..
So .. The journey of togetherness began ..
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Days passed..
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Months passed..
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Year passed..
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And finally by facing all the ups and downs of relations they decided to get commited..

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Nisha was a very ambitious girl..
She had a wish list for her life..
She even had wishes to finish before she’ll get married ..
She wanted to live alone for sometime.. Explore things.. She wanted to be independent ..
And ballu was working hard for their future..
To get permission from his strict parents..
So ..
After finishing studies both of them went home..
Ballu joined his family business and got busy..
Nisha was also doing a job of her choice..
Everything was alright till then..
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But after a few days..
They faced issues.. The real relationship issues..
They used to get busy with the work and had no time for each other..
Ballu was so sure that Nisha would be alright..
As she was at her home so he was okay even if they’re not talking..
But Nisha..
She used to manage everything and used to take time for them also..
She used to stay updated on texts and chats to Ballu..
So Nisha felt as if Ballu was taking her for granted..
But Ballu was so sure that she’ll not go anywhere that he used to see her updates but never used to do so..
Cause whenever he used to work his focus was only on his work.. And when he used to get free he used to see nisha’s updates and feel that she is okay..
And he was all okay with whatever going on..
But nisha..
Even if she is doing work at the back of her mind somewhere there she used to think about ballu so she used to give her updates to him so that he’ll do the same..
These things went on..
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After sometime ..
Nisha asked ballu if everything is okay.. Because she thought ballu must be in some problem and hence he’s behaving so..
But ballu said everything is alright and he’s working for their future ..!!
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After a few days ..
Fights started.. Due to the less conversation .. misunderstandings increased ..
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The two love birds..
Who never used to fight..
Who always used to sort out things on time..
Who never had conversation gaps..
Who always used to share everything with each other..
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Started getting away from each other..
Started avoiding each other..
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The compromises ..
The adjustments ..
The understanding ..
The care..
The importance ..
Fade off..
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Both of them..
Were very confused and sad about the longing between them..
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Due to this..
They lost their bond ..
And the two love birds crossed their path and moved away..
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Both of them loved each other..
And still love each other..
But..
Decided to move on..
Cause ..
They lost the bond..

You know..
They say..
Communication is very important in any relation..
But ..
It's not only about communication ..
It’s all about the involvement .. how much we involve ourselves with each other !!
Isn’t it so ??
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Very nice mam