“ FINDING THE ONE.. SOULMATE !! ”

If two happy people meet ..

Then there can be something wonderful happening between them..

If you just become love ..

Rather than loving somebody ..

Then you’ll know the nature of love .. !!

So..

How do you know the person you’re with is the right person for you ??

Hmm..

Okay ..

Let me just give you a scenario to understand ..

So..

Once Sharma family and all of the Sharma’s ( i.e their relatives )

came together for dinner ..

Like for a get together ..

And when everybody settled down..

Jatin stood up and announced ..

“ I’m going to marry Chanchal.. Varma’s daughter.. !! ”

Umm .. Hmm..

( Now don't start searching for them.. hahaha.. )

Then..

Everyone was just shocked listening to this..

His father said..

“ What ??

You’re going to marry Chanchal .. Seriously ??!! ”

Mother said..

“ What.. you’re going to marry that chanchal..??

She is nothing .. ”

His uncle said..

“ What are you going to marry that Chanchal.. ??

Have seen herself .. her hair looks so fake.. !! ”

Aunt said..

“ Why Chanchal ??

She always looks painted with make-up on her face..

You’re going to marry a painted woman ?? ”

Even his little nephew..

He said..

“ Why are you marrying Chanchal.. ??

She doesn’t even know what cricket is..

How can you marry her ?? ”

Jatin said..

“ Yes.. i’m going to marry Chanchal.. !! ”

Then everybody asked in one voice..

“ Why ?? ”

Jatin said..

“ Because she has no family..

And hence there are not many opinions to battle with.. !! ”

Hahaha..

Okay ..

So jokes apart ..

Now tell me..

Who is the right person ??

I don’t want to take away all the romance.. and all that excitement .. mystery .. from your life..

But..

Let me tell you this..

That there is no right person on this planet .. !!

If you get into that unrealistic mindset that …

“ I’ve found the right person .. or the one for me.. my soulmate.. and all that blah.. blah.. blah.. !! ”

Ohh then sorry to say..

But..

You’ll soon be disappointed ..!!

You must understand that there is no right person !!

First thing is to see..

Whether “ I'm the right person ??!!”

Yes !!

“ Am I the right person ?? ”

And ..

There are no right people on this planet .. !!

If you understand ..

“ You have your nonsense .. They have their nonsense ..

And..

We can adjust nonsense .. nonsense goes on !! ”

First and the foremost thing is..

You bring yourself to such a place ..

Where your experience of life is just pleasant by yourself .. you’re wonderful !!

Now lets see what gets drawn to this one ..

If you’re really wonderful..

Things will happen in every way I’m saying ..!!

And these all are exotic things ..

Like soulmate and all that blah..blah..blah.. !!

They say..

That there is the one.. your soulmate somewhere waiting for you !!

God made just one more person just for you..

And so these days ..

After every one or two year.. he keeps making one more person just for you .. !!

Also the one you were with is now someone else's soulmate ..

He has nothing to do rather than this ..

Right ??

Hahaha !!

Obviously ..

God is making too many mistakes with you..

Isn’t it so then ??

Hahaha !!

See..

Body needs a mate.. Understandable !!

Maybe psychologically also you need a mate.. Understandable !!

Emotionally you need a mate..

Your soul cannot need a mate.. So the soul doesn’t need a mate.. !!

Nor was some person perfectly made for you ..

Okay ??

If you invest ..

A deep sense of involvement ..

Then ..

Something wonderful may happen ..

And..

It's because of your involvement ..

Not because the other person is fantastic !!

No .. !!

Even if you choose a fool..

Actually it's easy that way ..

Because ..

If they’re not stupid then..

Why would they come to you.. !!

( just kidding .. !! )

No.. No.. No..

I was just being sarcastic ..!!

So even if you choose a fool..

It doesn’t matter ..

If you involve yourself..

It can turn out very beautiful !!

Even if you choose the smartest person in the world..

It could be a disaster !!

So ..

Do not think in terms of.. You know.. Whatever this made for each other nonsense is !!

No..

You choose the opposite actually ..

But ..

After sometime ..

After a little bit of time..

You slowly start expecting that they’re just like you !!

And ..

This is the serious and biggest mistake you do ..!!

Because ..

If one more person becomes just like you..

You won’t be able to bear with them even for two days !!

Nobody is like you.. And that's good !!

So..

Don’t look for sameness ..

It’s not necessary ..

Because ..

You tangle up only because of the differences .. otherwise you won’t !!

Hahaha !!

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