“ YOU KNOW YOU’RE IN… ”

Vaishnavi Palekar
Oct 15, 2020
3 min read

Want to build real relations.. ??

Have you observed ..

Whenever we try to build any relationship it makes us change..

Yes ??

See ..

Never try to build any relationship with anyone..

Because when you try to do so..

Then accordingly you change yourself and the relationship becomes artificial ..

And that relationship which we try to build becomes a temporary relation..

Afterall how long will you stay like this ..

Someday your original nature will come out and then the relationship will become toxic and will end ..!!

Isn’t it ?

Just imagine..

When someone tries to impress you ..

You eventually notice it..

Yes ??

And then what you do..

You move away.. !!

Isn’t it ??

See..

What you would like..

Because that is what others also like.. !!

You like someone to be very Honest.. Open.. Natural.. Expressive.. Unassuming with you.. Right ??

That’s exactly what others also want from you ..!!

So …

Don’t try to build any relationship..

Just be yourself.. Be natural.. Be simple ..!!

And then..

You’ll get the one who's just the same as you and will accept you as you’re ..

And that relationship will be long lasting and there will be transparency in the relation.. !!

Yes or no ??

So always remember ..

“ Whatever is yours will always be yours..

And..

Whatever moves away or leaves you was never yours even before !! ”

Just tell me one thing ..

Do you know everything about yourself ??

Do you know until when you’ll be with yourself ??

Then ..

How can you expect it from someone else ??

See if you can’t guarantee about yourself .. then how can you expect it from someone else .. ??

Agree ??

When you don’t have control on your own ..

How can someone else have it ??

It's impossible ..!!

So..

Just accept people as they are and continue..

Because ..

Whatever is yours will always be yours ..!!

See ..

What you’ll expect from others ..

You'd expect that the other person should give you respect.. freedom.. priority.. importance and should never restrict you..

Right ??

So follow the same for others too ..!!

“ Give each other freedom.. respect and be focused on a goal ..!! ”

Okay ..

Let me give you one example ..

To make it more simple to understand..

If someone says that they love you alot..

They even do..

They care for you a lot..

They don’t even let you do anything and treat you like a showcased thing..

They give all of their time to you..

Fulfil all your wishes and never let you take any type of efforts ..

Would you like it..??

No … right ..!!

Because even if you like this feeling .. after some time you’ll feel restricted and helpless right ??

Afterall who wants to be caged ??

Right ??

So ..

Just be yourself and never select temporary happiness because it hurts you later..!!

Relationships are all about contributing, not demanding..!!

There should always be that give and take thing..!!

This is how real relations are formed !!

One-sided love & all these things are just for sayings..

These aren’t real..!!

How long will you love someone else immensely and that too a one way love ??

You can't beg or force anyone to love you .. right ??

If the other person doesn’t respect your feelings then you have all the rights to make yourself loved.. !!

Isn’t it ??

All of us know that we have only one life..

So then.. Enjoy it..

Don’t waste it running behind someone else who doesn't even care for you ..!!!

See..

This cycle of relations will always fill the blank place in between ..

If a person leaves you another comes in your life to fulfill that place and everything..!!

So just have patience and enjoy the beauty of your life journey ..!!

Afterall ..

Our life is all about exploring everything !!