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"BEFRIEND TO YOURSELF..!! "

  • Writer: Vaishnavi Palekar
    Vaishnavi Palekar
  • Aug 8, 2020
  • 3 min read

It is said that…

Every seven years the human body cells change & it means that the person becomes completely new..!!

But sometimes to change few days or few moments are enough where we don't even get the time to observe our-self what exactly changed…!!

So this is the story of Akbar & Birbal..

Once they hanged a monkey & her baby on a pole in a water tank. Then they started filling water into the tank. The monkey tried to save her baby but she could not save him, the baby died. The water level in the tank was increasing so the monkey tried to save herself by taking her own baby under her feets & she saved herself..!!

" It means that the human living desires are more than the desires to die..!! "

So..

It's the temporary situation when we feel or want to end life..end everything..!!

&

This situation we need to avoid..!!

My dear…

" Life is all about desires..!! "

  • If you can't deal with someone… you can leave them & can start living a new life without them..!!

  • If you can't deal with your job.. you can leave the job & can find another one..!!

Isn't it??

  • But if you don't want to live this life you can end this but you never know what happens next & about to start the new one..!!

Are you getting ??

Sometimes this happens…

  • That we feel very lonely or we feel like there is no one for us…

  • I want to end my life…

  • I don't want to live this life...I want to start a new life…

  • I m tired of my life…

  • My life is so boring…

& Sometimes this also happens…

  • That someone who is very positive about life… very ambitious… has many goals & desires about life but is tired of living this life…

  • A person with high - expectations, high - plannings may also want to end life…

  • Anyone with any reason can think about this…

So it's okay..!!


We feel this for sometime…

This is a temporary situation & avoiding this situation is very important..!!

Because…

Everyone wants to live life..!!

Isn't it..??

This is the temporary situation & it is avoidable..!!

As at that time…

We feel about to isolate our-self from others & just want to be alone…!!

But…

Never do that…

That time is very important for you to spend with others so avoid spending it alone..!!

So always remember…

Whenever you'll feel so…

  • Accept the thoughts coming..

  • Remember that this is the temporary situation...

  • I can avoid this…

  • I can overcome this..!!

" Nothing is important than your life..!! "

So…

For that time…

Surround yourself with your loved ones... Your family… Your friends..!!

And

If it is not possible then do what you love & make yourself busy…!!

Someone said..

" We cannot decide when to be born & when to die, but how to live our life is in our hands..!!"

Isn't it ??

Often we think that whole life is still there for us to enjoy… to celebrate… to fulfill our wishes…

No… Never…!!

Life doesn't wait for anyone..!!


Then why to keep our dreams pending throughout the life...

That too for better tomorrow… & which will be there or not we don't even know..!!

Who has seen tomorrow...future ??


" Kal ho na ho..!! "
" Kal kisne dekha hai..!! "

So…

Give yourself a good time to make wishes & also to fulfill them..!!

&

Don't wait for the perfect moment…

Make your present moment the perfect one..!!

Live life as…

Whenever you'll look back & will think about your life … You should not have any regrets..!!

Live life for yourself..!!

Give yourself time..!!

We always want someone to listen us…

Whom we can share everything…

Isn't it ??

But the most important thing is…

We don't need anyone to always be there for us… to listen… to care… to love..!!

" You are everything for yourself..!! "

You can be your listener..!!

You can be your best friend..!!

You can love yourself..!!

You can care for yourself..!!

You can be your everything..!!

" You are sufficient for yourself..!! "

So…

" Befriend to yourself..!! "
" Love yourself the way you are..!! "

&

" Go with the flow of life..!! "


 
 
 

2 Comments


nehagore132
Aug 09, 2020

Amazing work🤩🤩🤩

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bhendarkarabhishek
Aug 08, 2020

Nice..... u point out the very important topic. Nowdays everyone has problems, issues, but everyone don't knows that how to deal with nd then thet think about to end the life... but this blog will help them to figure it out. Again wann say that you are superb.. keep it up

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