" LONG TERM RELATIONS.. !! "

Whenever we talk about relationships ..

We consider.. we indirectly think of the relation of two people who love each other..

Right ??

But don’t we have relations with everyone around us..?

Our relations with everyone around us are different and hence the love towards them also differs..!!

Yes ??

Nowadays ..

Families or relations they are losing their real meaning ..

And ..

People don’t want to understand .. people are like ..

They want others to understand them ..

But they are not willing to understand others ..

Even if they understand .. empathy is missing ..!!

Everybody is running after money or something else..

But..

Life is nowhere ..

In short we can say..

Everybody is running behind finding happiness for life..

Isn’t it ??

Even for a minute .. our mind does not stay in one place..

Yes ??

And this is not our fault..

All this is because of the information we are gathering ..

Hence we are all being restless .. so we are running behind ..

This is a fact.. Do you agree ??

We don't have time for anyone else..

Because we want instant gratification..

We want to gather all the information very quickly ..

And hence we are losing patience ..

Yes ?

Also..

Even after getting the information we gather it and run behind the other things..

Is this happening..

Yes ??

So ..

Actually..

To say we are in a relationship..

In a relationship with parents.. Childs.. Family members .. Friends .. Husband-Wife.. etc..

But in actual .. that deep meaningful relationship is missing..

How many of you can say that they spend a good time every day sitting with their parents .. just talking and sharing things .. ??

There is nothing more important than this in our lives ..

Because ..

If your parents, who are everything for you in this world right now ..

Is there anyone else in your life, who is more important to you than your parents ??

Yes or No ?

sure ?

Even.. these friends who we say are our Yaar.. Life.. Family .. are also after them.. !!

Often people say that they’ll never leave you and will be with you forever .. but trust me everyone changes after time but parents remain the same ..!!

I am just telling all this to make you realize that ..

The deep meaningful relationship which we should have with our parents is missing ..

And..

If you don’t have that deep meaningful relationship with your parents..

That means you don’t have that experience and practice of spending good time with someone ..

Then how can you make good and quality relations with others in your life..??

Because no one is that connected and close to you more than your parents.. family .. !!

Yes or No ??

And if..

If we can not make good relations with our parents..

then how can we expect and make such relations with someone else ??

It’s an extremely serious issue ..

Because all of us know the importance of money..

Everyone says money is important and all..

But..

By money ..

We get a comfortable life.. in short we can get what we want by money..

Right ?

But..

Spending peaceful.. Quality time means what ??

You are lying on a bed full of money .. you have money all around you..

Is it a quality time ??

Whatever relationships we have in our life..

By relationships.. I mean all the relationships ..

That could be with your parents.. family.. friends .. colleagues .. childrens .. etc..

All are very important in our lives ..

Relationship means what.. Spending a good, quality time ..!!

And that too not for only purpose .. spending time by involving wholly ..

That is sharing whatever we want to share with them.. Whatever we feel .. expressing everything .. and also listening to them by giving importance..

Yes ??

Isn’t it necessary in life ??

This is how relationships are formed.. Isn’t it so ?

Relationships which are like this feel so amazing and give satisfaction in life !!

I am not saying pleasure ..

Because money gives you pleasure ..

But after some time pleasure gives boredom..

And we don’t understand this till we experience..

Right ??

What i mean to say is..

When you get indent in it you become trapped into it..

But..

If the relationships are meaningful and if it is a two way relationship then it never traps us..

If two people are connected by heart with each other..

They really love and care for each other..

Then can that relationship ever get bored ??

Can it stop or trap us ??

Now you’ll understand the difference between pleasure and happiness by meaningful relations ..

Yes ??

& ..

If you can see the feelings and love for you in someone’s eyes ..

Isn’t it a beautiful feeling ??

As you can see it in your parents eyes.. !!

And if with them we’ll be able to have a good time.. How long will this relationship stay ..??

Forever right .. ??

So ..

If you have tons of money.. Big house.. Cars and all the stuff..

That is not important..

Yah you should have that enough money to survive happily & that is important..

But that should not ruin your life.. Your relations with others..

Because they are ever lasting !!

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