“ LOVE OR ATTACHMENT..?? ”

Often people say…

Where there is love, there is attachment..!!

i.e Attachment is important for love…

How ??

No.. there is no connection in between them..!!

Whereas we can say…

Love & Hate are connected..!!

Why ??

Because.. they are opposite but interdependent ..!!

Suppose…

Someone is passing by you… will you hate them?

Is it possible ??

Nope... Absolutely not..!!

We hate those whom we have loved..!!

Yes ??

“ Where there is attachment, there is fear..

&

Where there is love, there is no fear..!! ”

Have you observed …

Often we are afraid to lose people ..

Right ??

But we are only afraid to lose those we are attached to.. !!

Isn’t it so ??

Because whoever we love…

We know that our love will be forever,

their presence in your life will be their choice..!!

Because..

“ Love is selfless, unconditional..!! ”

Whereas..

“ Attachment is selfish..!! ”

As attachment wants the other person to be together &

Is afraid to lose people..!!

I know this is very harsh to listen…

But it's the truth ..!!

Love it means something more…

Something we can’t yet understand ..!!

Love means that you’re complete within..

You don’t need anything or anybody to be there to complete you..!!

You’re so complete that you don’t need anybody to make you happy..!!

Your existence is not dependent upon anything or anybody..!!

i.e You are deeply in love with yourself ..!!

&

Whenever you’ll be so deep within yourself.. so much involved with yourself…

Then you’ll be happier then & everyone will love your company..!!

Hence..

“ Love is everlasting & selfless..!! ”

Whereas..

“ Attachment makes you selfish..!!

Attachment means you’re desperately trying to identify yourself in somebody to make your life happier..!!

Isn’t is so ??

Okay..

So have you observed …

• Some people do what you love, care for you, they try to make you happy by doing whatever is good & right for you…!!

This is what love is… !!

Yes ??

• Some people do what they think is right & good for you ...

They don’t care whether you’re happy or not..!!

Getting my point ??

So.. this is what attachment is..!!

“ Love is liberating..!! ”

i.e It helps you to be your true self & helps you to grow..!!

“ Attachment is controlling..!! ”

It tries to control the other person's life as per their choice..!!

Attachment restricts growth ..!!

Isn’t it so ??

Hence..

“ Love gives you freedom..!! ”

“ Love never restricts or controls you..!! ”

“ Love is putting someone else’s needs before yours..!! ”

Where..

“ Attachment restricts you... tries to control you..!! ”

Why ??

Because..

Attachment wants you to do what is good for you according to them… to fulfill their wishes to make themselves happy..!!

Isn’t it ??

Okay ??

Suppose that

You have a flower in your hand & you’re dancing then you’ll move your hands gently accordingly ..

Right ??

Because if you’ll not take care of it then the flower will become bare..!!

Isn’t it ??

That is what love is..!!

Where..

Attachment is like a plastic flower..

Someone has made it look like a flower..

But it is not the real flower..

Because the necessary life & blossoming is not there in it..!!

But plastic flowers are very convenient to you so you’ll use them according to your convenience..!!

So these flowers are useful to you..!!

Right ??

So..

Attachment is very useful…

It is convenient for you & makes your life happier but not of the other person’s life..!!

But..

Love is not useful…

It brings a new sense in your life..

It takes life…

It demands you for the other person's happiness..!!

&

That’s the whole thing !!

People love somebody…

They believe that they love someone whom they are attached to ..

& says the other that they are their whole world ..!!

Isn’t it ??

&

That’s the whole problem in the world ..!!

Because ..

“ People are living with attachments not with love..!! ”

Your physical existence is interdependent…

But your basic way of living need not to be dependent on anything !!

Only then you’ll be truly wonderful for anyone who comes to your life..!!

Because..

Then you’ll be so deeply in love with yourself ..

You’re complete within ..

You’re so satisfied with yourself that you don’t need anyone to fulfill your needs, your demands, your desires..!!

So…

Always remember…

“ When you need love - Give love - & It’ll come back to you..!! ”

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